Have you ever found yourself saying yes, when you really wanted to say no? Have you ever taken on work you knew you'd hate because you felt there was no other option? Have you ever stayed in a relationship well past its expiration date (5 minutes or 10 years)?
When we give into things that are not aligned with us and what we truly want, we're souling out on some level; we're ignoring our inner directive, perhaps out of fear or guilt, which then sets us up for a rough ride that usually doesn't end pleasantly.
When I look back on my life I remember so many moments where I souled out. Where I literally went against what I knew in my heart was right for me (even while my soul was screaming at me not to), because I thought I needed something so badly. Of course this was completely delusional and exposed my desperate outer search for things that can only be found within. But I grew. In fact, every one of those experiences unlocked doors to myself. They showed me how to live in a much more congruent way - a way that takes everything into consideration, foremost my integrity and the nudging's of my soul.
So whenever you're faced with making an important decision, you can spare yourself much unnecessary heartache by always taking a few deep breaths before deciding. Check in with yourself and if it doesn't resonate with your soul, just say no and let it go.
Refuse to soul out, baby!
You're so darn AMAZING!