I posted a video earlier today on my facebook page about 'Being You' and I wanted to elaborate a bit more on this topic. Specifically about when you post a video or a piece of writing that evokes a judgmental response from another. As I've mentioned before in previous posts, when we get 'triggered' by these type of reactions to us, it may suggest that we have some lingering self-judgment to process, otherwise these opinions would simply roll off us and we might even have a chuckle or two. Of course, whenever we are willing to be vulnerable and put ourselves out there to share what is in our heart, the response won't always be smiles and sunshine. Why? Because when we dare shine, it can sometimes be like a direct beam that spotlights other people's feelings of inadequacy - usually those who are settling for less than they desire in life, and we become their reminder.
As challenging as it can be to receive critical responses to our heart-felt messages, I think we are missing a very important point when we allow it to flatten us. What is the purpose of our work? Why are we posting these videos, blogs and messages in the first place? My personal purpose is in the hopes that my experiences can help someone else in theirs - to perhaps say just the right thing that inspires them to step into their courage and live exactly who they are. So in my opinion, the fact that someone is reacting in ANY way to my writings or videos is AWESOME! It elicited a response. I GOT IN! That means my words caused an effect and if I am truly standing in my own power, I will view the not so nice comments as hitting the target - BULLSEYE - my message lit up another person's shit. I don't need to take any of it personally, for it is not about me.
Being someone with a deep desire to use their creative skills to make our world a little brighter is not for the faint of heart. Have you ever tried to wake a sleeping bear? Well probably not, but we can just imagine, right? My point is, our work may trigger defense mechanisms in those who would rather remain snoozing. They might kick and scream to remain in their comfort zone of oblivion. They may even attempt to knock you on your ass and steal your power if you let them.
When you receive a judgmental reaction to a post on social media or otherwise, simply hold a space of love for that person. In so doing, you have a shot at uplifting them rather than allowing them to dim your shine. Don't forget why you're doing this work my loves. We are breaking down barriers. We are helping to shift this planet towards love. There is bound to be some resistance to that!
SHINE ON!