Whenever we are triggered by something or someone, those feelings will quickly move through us and cease in 90 seconds or less, as long as we don't attach any thought to them. I read this somewhere many years ago, tested the theory numerous times and it works!
If peace of mind is important to you, remain neutral and breathe deeply through these provoking moments and notice how quickly the low-vibe feelings dissipate. It's the mind that loves the drama. Nip it in the bud before it has a chance to flower.
Remember... how we FEEL is the signal we send out that sets the wheels of our life adventures in motion.
We're always in charge of what that vibe (inner charge) will be.